i need help... i have the spawn of satan living with me part time!!!!!!!!!!!!!

why is that my step daughter feels the need to take whats not hers? like she took her brothers flip (with out asking) to use for her own purposes. then her brother out of the kindness of his heart let her use his gamer id for a game and she got him kicked ff because she said in a chat on the game the she "fucking hates this game" first off shes 12 yrs old and using that kinda of language. she needs to be knocked down a peg but her parents refuse to do it. take her damn phone away. its not hard. if she starts crying dont give in. but of course she throws a big fuss and gets her way. why cant parents just stick to punishments that they enforce. instead of giving in when she turns on the waterworks and says things arent fair. it piss me off that she doesnt even care that she caused her brother to get kicked off his game. she only cares about herself. how can i change that? i cant. why cant se just get a good smack in the face. maybe that will knock the whole "im way better tha you are and i dont give a shit how you feel about it" attitude. another exmaple would be she is sitting on the couch and the dogs are scratching at the window screen 10 ft away. instead of saying stop or getdown she coses to ignore them and the knock the screen out and she does nothing. only when i come down the stairs does she go out and get the dogs. i ask her why she did watch the dogs... her response "they arent my dogs. im not responsible for them. im not going to watch them." all i can do is get pissed and walk away. i cant yell at her cuz she tell her mom i called some god awful name and that will start ten kinds of shit. what to do what to do...
now the boys on the other hand are amazing. i have no problems out of them at all. none. they do what they are told to do. they clean up their messes. i dont have to worry about them doing anything bad because they dont. why cant she be more like them. if y'all have any suggestions on my spawn problem please fell free to comment. im not a mom so any help on how to combat this disease would be nice!
thsnks to all and stay cool
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full of hate.

So i really ate people that say they are going to do something then dont! Wy cant peoplejust follow trough with what they say they are going to do. is it really that freakin hard? i guess it must be. and since im alraedy pissed off lets talk about Ford. My lovely POS ford truck broke down again.... this is the 3rd time its been in the shop since i bought it a year ago... why cant the warrenty company do what i paied tem to do and fix my truck the right way? because they are stupid thats why. so i am now stuck without a vehicle and i dont know for how long. BFS (Bitch Face Sr.) has a truck but since we cant pay for it all today we dont get it and shes going to scrap it. really... REALLY. what a bitch! way to help us out... oh wait you would rather dump ur kids and go get screwed... what a lovely mother. My boys dont want to go home. one wants to move in and the other wants to move in with his NANA they dont want to live with their mother cuz she ignores them. and she gets pissed when she has to bring them out to us. if she would let us have the truck then she would have to drive. but she has no compassion. screw her and her freakin truck. sorry theis post is all bitchy i am having a shitty morning and just needed to get it out.
Hope you all are having a safe summer. be good or be good at it.
luvs

July 6th NY+5

well i have offically been in NY for 5 days. the weather is amazing! it gets down into the 50s at night and the high70s during the day. low humidity. sure beats the heat down south. the house is finally coming together. everything is finding its place. i had a bit of a rough start. the step daughter and i had a few big fights and then her dad stepped in and she went home. why is it that kids these days dont know how to respect their elders. i mean really telling me that she doesnt have to listen to me because im not her mom. she also called me a fat cow and mooed at me... shes always got an attitude with me and i cant stand it. if i ever acted the way she does towards my parents they would have killed me and made a new one that looked just like me... shes evil i tell you... EVIL... but she went home with her mom because she gets anything and everything ahe wants. on to bigger and brighter things... ummmmmm oh i know so i was sitting on my "postcard of a back deck" (its 5x6) and i was enjoying watching my boys shoot the .22 well "Fangs" thought it would be cute to come out and crawl under the deck with me sitting on it... if you know me i was outta my chair and in the house in 1.2 secs. I HATE SNAKES!!!! i think they are nasty creatures and need to be killed. so the boys thought it would be cool to try and catch it. they wanted to bring it inside and keep it for a pet... that idea was shot down. i told them they could take it to their mothers house and see how she iked it. they dropped the idea. how nice of them...

one last thing before i get off here... i wanna send out "mad hobbit love" to a friend of mine. he just found out that his bitch of an ex wife got knocked up by their roomie. they arent even divorced yet. what a freakin bitch. and then she calls to brag about it... some people jsut need to get beat with a metal leg... i thought what she did was very insensitive. i mean shit she told him that she didnt love him anymore and then she told him that she fell for their roomie and then to find out that she got knocked up by him... some people just have no couth. --- Lovie just know that im thing about you and that your always in my heart!---

well folks i think thats all for tonight. i have some facebooking that i need to get done. i hope everyone had a good 4th weekend and that your summer isnt too hot!

Empty House.

So as of tomorrow i start moving stuff into a big Uhaul and emptying my house. well gerrys gonna do the loading up and im gonna be doing the cleaning. just to get this out there and make it known.... I HATE CLEANING. i would rather cut my leg off than clean. (hahaha) i have a maze of boxes leading through my house. so my house is "offically" packed. I really hate the fact that i am leaving KY. i have soo many good memories down here. my first apt that had a hole in the floor and you could see the storm cellar. to losing my leg and finding that i really didnt need it anyways. to getting divorced and remarried. (finding out that i dont have an ex-husband but and ex-wife.... thats a whole different post.) The Morgue. wow that was alot of fun too. so i guess its time for me to bring on the y'all's and the sweet tea. Get ready New York... Here comes Elaine...

Moving

So I am moving. My first big move. I made my first move when I was 19. I moved from Plainfield Indiana to Louisville. It was one of those "Get married at the court house and move in the same day" moves. i have since moved around Louisville a few times but nothing Major. I am leaving Saturday for Port Leyden NY. (God's Country as my Lovely husband puts it.) "Where we dont measure snow in inches, we measure it in Feet!" It snows from October to May. Now I like me some snow ,but really, FEET?!?! I have enough trouble walking in snow when theres only a dusting and now im gonna have to make my way through FEET?!?! The reason we are moving up there is because my Husbands kids live only 30 min. away. the things you do for love. s So now i am moving away from my family my friends only to start a new adventure up there. Im bubbly so hopefully i will have made some friends by Christmas. well i must be off. i have a bathroom to pack and a husband to feed. im thinkin pasta.